Can we blame other women for their harmful, sexist behavior?

They’re victims and perpetrators rolled into one.

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“Wow, that’s revealing,” Tiffany* says to a friend of mine. “I usually wear either a low-cut bikini top or a thong. Both is too much. But you know, maybe that is just me being conservative!” Tiffany turns to her friend and says “I love your bikini! It looks like lingerie. Are you…